How life changes

Well when i was writing my earlier post about the cars i just started thinking as to how life changes...whether its good or bad it just keep on changing...
I am a techno savvy person and love to have lots of gadgets handy...but alas my pocket don't support my wish.... any Way I'm lucky that my managed to provide me all the great things...all basic requirements like music system in my room, computer, phone, Ipod, huge collection of Cd's and books, and yes a mobile.

I got a mobile for my self when i was in first year graduation...
It was a Motorola some model but it looked like this....huge cordless types...but this was in fashion those dayz people used to carry these in hand purposely to showoff.....i was the only one in my class to have a mobile so was proud..at the same time sad as had no one to chat with....any way those days in coming was charged good no one else had it....

Next i got a Sony Ericson's T100 as the big mobile fashion was going down i needed a new model for myself.

This was a cute handy set...loved by all my frndz n of course me too....i used it for next 2 years.....after completing my graduation it started giving trouble...so before my postgrad i had to have a new mobile...by this time FM radio was in...so i wanted a radio phone...the most reliable was nokia 2300

for three complete years i have used it and i loved it...only thing missing was camera...radio stations play nice music hence i didn't feel the need to have a memory card to save my songs.....

a year before i mean last year my dad brought a new mobile 'HTC' for himself so i inherited his old mobile...

although it was my fav but my 2300 was getting old and was troubling me now...so switched to this cool 6670..."i knw i knw out of fashion but still at least a camera"..was my first thought so now im using this...it will take me sometime to chage another but i have changed every thing about it...changed the panel from traditional silver to my fav black...got a 1gb memory card for it (this model cant take more than this)bought a new headphones...so its changed....

still there is 1 biggggggggggg probs it has no radio...dad didn't require a radio so he bought this model but what about me...so i have this 1gb thing and as many songs as possible in it...soon or later ill have a better phone than what i have 2day but no regrates for present one too.....

lets see how much more my life changes...

neha 16 MAr 09: OK a Quick update...some one just reminded me that i should update this post as well.

now i have changed my cellphone and again switched back to Sony ericson a handsome cool piece...sleek stylish n very light weight.....im njoying life with it....

so this is the view of my new phone i have this brown one.....

:)

40 rules to be happy

i just saw these rules some where on net....just go through....

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.


2. Memorise your favourite poem.

3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. Good luck poem

4. When you say 'I love you', mean it.

5. When you say 'I'm sorry', look the person in the eye.

6. Be engaged for at least 6 months before you get married.

7. Believe in love at first sight.

8. Never laugh at anyones dreams.

9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

10. In disagreements fight fairly, no name calling.

11. Don't judge people by their relatives.

12. Talk slowly but think quickly.

13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

14. Remember that great love and great acheivements involve great risk.

15. Call your mum.

16. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

17. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

18. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibilities for all your actions.

19. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

20. When you realise you've made a mistake take immediate steps to correct it.

21. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

22. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

23. Spend some time alone.

24. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

25. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

26. Read more books and watch less TV.

27. Live a good honourable life. The when you get older and think back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.

28. Trust in god but lock your car.

29. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

30. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

31. Read between the lines.

32. Share your knowledge, it's a way to acheive immortality.

33. Be gentle with the earth.

34. Pray. There's immeasureable power in it.

35. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.

36. Mind your own business.

37. Don't trust a man or woman who doesn't close his/her eyes when you kiss.

38. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.

39. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others whilst you are living. That is wealth's greatest satisfaction.

40. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.

41. Learn the rules then break some.

ooops these are 41 rules......

Happy B'day

Whats in a b'day....we all njoy overselfs on our b'day. have fun n pamper ourself as much as we can.....coool

it was my b'day yesterday. i had a blast. my frndz called me (n those who neither called nor sms nor scraped katti hmm not talkin to u)...realtives called and i was pampered a lot more than usual....it was my mom's b'day too (what a sweet gift mom got from GOD on her b'day when i was born he he he)...i the end i cud think of lovely people around me my best friend played happy b'day song on phone...she was more excited on my b'day than me...oh she is my sweetheart.....

but i remembered one of my sir's when i was in 7th std...
i remeber it very well it was his b'day and he was our fav sir...so we celebrated his b'day buying cake and gift for him...we gave him a small sweet party...he was touched deeply by our act...but after everything he started telling us something which has made a mark in my mind. though what he told is a total negative way towards life but still i remember those words of him very well now after so many years....

He said my dear kids y r u all so happy. Happy for me? for my b'day? really??? but y? ur happy that i grew another year old....u r happy because im one year closer to my death ur happy because i m closer to my death my end....ru happy for that...there was absolute slience in the class. we all were unhappy with his words. we were so excited about his b'day & this was what he had to tell us???? He just walked out of the class...leaving us upset, confused and annoyed.

But that thing, his words made a mark on me....its the way u look towards life...+ve or -ve its in your own hand. u can be happy that i have seen the world and lived life safely and beautifully one more year (being happy fot the past) or unhappy, afraid and scared to face anothr year of life....

i take my b'day in a +ve way...i grew a year old but the process was good and beautiful...because i love my life and i love this world... May be my professor was very old (he retired in 2-3 years after this incidence), may thats why his way of looking at life was different.

but yes this b'day was the very nice as many of my frndz remembered my b'day (ya may because of orkut b'day remainders but atleast they wished). Thanks all my friendz to make my day special and wonderful.

GOD bless you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Harmony Of Life – Where is the Peace????

During my school days i had learned a Poem, a huge but sweet and meaningful one. Now after so long I remember neither the poem nor the poet, but the meaning of that poem will always remain in my heart. simply because it has made a deep impact in my heart.

The poem started saying that when God was making us - the humans, He had different glasses full of love, care, richness, glory, and every thing man needed to survive and live life to the fullest. He kept pouring one by one each of the glasses. And when the last glass came he stopped..... He began thinking whether this glass should be poured. Then He thought if this glass is also poured then man will be complete, content... this will make man away from Him (away from GOD).And if he restricts this glass then man will miss something in life and will hence be close to HIM (close to God).

This last glass contained peace to mind or rest. This is the only thing which keeps us abreast with the God.

'Peace of mind' is one thing every human is searching, every human is wondering for. what ever you do for others or for your own self, in the end you do feel hmm something is missing somewhere but what and where is that thing missing.

When we were young we never understood because its beyond our thinking but when we grow old we can't think because its beyond our understanding.

But if one doesn't believe in God its important to think... Where is the peace in our life... we keep running behind happiness and still miss the happiness in our life... that rest of mind is no where....

Keep searching guys............

life goes as it comes...its goin on n on n on

" There is only one great adventure and that is inward toward the self, and for that time nor space nor even deeds matter..."

Henry Miller

It was a great day when i got my MTech Thesis in my hand. I could feel the thrill inside me. Vo so i completed MTech and now only one seminar and things are done. On 16th of Aug I gave my seminar infront of an external examiner and 2 internal people. I was Scared of screwing up things on stage. But to my relief i could talk cooly and didnt even stopped out of nervesness. phew things went well question round was cool enough and i felt confident.

How was the seminar????????? according to me was great and actually how was it that my marks for the semester will speak for me.


any how all is well that ends well......


Now the biggest chalange in life.... what next... I m been called an intelligent MTech girl s what next..... Job hunting he he he he he


Its still in process i m hoping best for me and my frndz who in same situation that im in. Atleast i could extend my project period rather than sitting at home....


Its still in process i m hoping best for me and my frndz who in same situation that im in. Atleast i could extend my project period rather than sitting at home....So im busy getting up early in the morning and getting ready to go to the office. But this is not a job im a trainee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Now i have realised the importance of enjoying life you never know where will life take you so live life to the fullest as if there is no tommorow...i love life.


JOb job job...aja aja aja...ha ha ha goin to come this way gotta go harder way to search..n sing
"tu chupa hai kahan main tersti yahhan" and life is goin on & on...hmm...

Peom for beautiful life...............

Like a dew drop sliding from wings of a sun flower

We kindle and commence our life in the lap of our mother

Phases of life set out with joyful and tearful moments

Smiles and Cries part of our kiddy life rest as monuments

As a Toddler, relations we acknowledge are only with parent

We mature to realize Human Relations to be transparent

It is to care and love all as we love our beloved ones

We draw affection towards selected few people

Care, admire and discover a lot from them like a pupil

Never ignore the immortal at times of smiley (joyful) mark

Faith in God is asked for either sides of coin (happy/sad) of life arc

Like a first rays of dawn, friends walk into your heart without invitation

They are as sweet as honey which one cannot buy with any money or position

With a thunderous blow love strikes you on eye of your heart

Not knowing how to react you shy away which are affects of that love dart

To marry a soul u love or to marry a devotee who loves u is always a debate

Everything possess their own good and ill effects, better leave to fate

i read this poem somewhere long time back written by some Indian poet i loved it be cause i think it teaches to love life